Thursday, March 13, 2014

LESSER WOMAN?

The sunrise was pretty much similar in this corner of the world too. The only difference was that she could not feel the rays of the sun warming her up. The dilapidated house with its dingy, unmade interiors clouded her vision further. The chirping of the birds was never heard in this corner of the world for this lane belonged to the koyals who had lost their voices to the cacophony of the unwavering carnal obliquity of their customers. They were none other than the ones who came day after day, sometimes leaving behind waiting wives and so-called true lovers back in a world considered high above than this hole of an existence.

A sparrow fell on earth. Its wings covered its face. The heat was unbearable. No one to quench its thirst or to feed it food, it fell down without much noise. A truck crushed its mortal remains, sending it in different directions. The winds resumed after a pause that evening and took with them the vestiges of a life known by a very few.
I sat and wondered how similar its story was to the many tales of women (or 'lesser' women?) whose bangles clunk just a lane away from me. There they were, around twenty of them, on both sides of a lane that would never be chosen by women usually, at least at this hour of the night. But here they were, with flowers adorning their hair, shiny bindis, bloody lips and clothes that always tried hard to accentuate their worn out bodies and souls. They smile, pass comments, make merry at the cost of their own now-irrelevant-dignity.
The men came. They devoured them with their eyes first and then took the worn out road. They trampled those wilted buds, ripped apart the tattered, sewn remains of a life that bore a huge brunt even without them actually realizing it.
And that’s where I met Malini. That it was another name for Goddess Durga was a sheer coincidence or not- I do not know. Barely 20 years of age, there she was sitting, watching her 3 year old daughter being ogled at by the usual visitors of the approaching dark. I was observing her from the last three months. Her tummy seemed to have bulged out a bit more than when I saw her last. Last trimester- she told me.
I was the only woman who did not belong there and yet had looked into her eyes, she had said, and that my eyes held a genuineness that gave her the confidence to look back into them. That was enough for two women to share a bond that would surely remain special. She looked up to our weekly interactions as much as I did.
She didn’t know who the father of her daughter was. Sadly she would not know this time too. There would just be one difference. Her second daughter would neither know her father nor her mother. Maybe she will only know the four walls of the brothel she would be brought up in, only to be fed to entertain the fantasies of men in whom she would always search for her father. Unfortunately, it was like what Late Malini had once told me, “For us, men are neither fathers nor brothers. We know them only as those shadowed figures that come to us seeking our bodies in return for notes that let us survive another day and to meet yet another man to repeat the cycle.”

Malini’s memories remain reminding me of R.Frost’s lines-
And further still at an unearthly height,
A luminary clock against the sky
Proclaimed the time was neither wrong nor right.
I have been one acquainted with the night.

Thursday, August 15, 2013

Trust : A new Beginning ( Book Review)

Trust: A New Beginning (Trust #1)Trust: A New Beginning by Cristiane Serruya
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

Trust: A New Beginning by Cristiane Serruya

'If' is a word that life doesn't consider.
And that's exactly why we should be asking 'why not' instead of 'what if'.

The first of the Trust Trilogy, this is more than just a story. It's a journey worth embarking upon with Sophia, the central character of the story. It's the story of a woman with an indomitable spirit, a woman of substance. What else can one call a lady who inspite of losing her husband at a young age, tends to her little daughter Gabriela ( the 'cuteness' element of the story)without breaking down to the pressures of the world.She is young, beautiful,intelligent and has the world at her feet. And yet there is a dark side. She is an awesome driver but she has taken lessons in driving away to safety incase of an emergency. The reasons are untold and makes the reader wonder what could possibly be wrong with a luxurious life like that.

Then there is Ethan Ashford, whose love is displayed in the form of wealth to his beloved.

Enter Alistair Connor- the reason why Sophia slept peacefully without that nightmare that shuddered her a tad too often. Ofcourse there is more to him than just that.( Grab the book!)

The descriptions of the characters are penned down so well by the author that the reader can experience the turmoils of their minds with almost the same intensity as that of the characters.

Here are people who are so sophisticated and rich and yet are busy fighting the demons of their mind. The intense and picturesque tale leaves the reader eagerly waiting for part2 which is what I exactly have in my lap at the moment!

P.S. I came to know of mannnyy new brands.. ;)

- Divya Nambiar

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Wednesday, July 31, 2013

To Grandpa, With Love!


Five years gone by.. Shadows of existence flutter by...
Amidst the steams of a hot cup of tea,
in the holy fragrance of the incense sticks,
in the enrapturing scent of the 'beedi',
in the laughter of the army men during break,
in the smoke of the fire lit on cold evenings
I find you beside me, even today.

Five years gone by.. Shadows of existence flutter by...
The sandalwood paste accentuates the nostalgia,
the calm forehead that had then turned cold,
the toes that suddenly seemed icy,
the body that was the temple to your soul
suddenly had turned empty, but still
I find you beside me, even today.

Five years gone by..Shadows of existence flutter by...
The slowly flowing river took with it your ashes
the sweet scent of your perfume
that refused to leave the home
that stands testimony to the time that we 'lived'
To the being that now exists in a photograph-
I find you beside me, even today.


- Divya Nambiar


Thursday, July 18, 2013

AuthoReader - A perfect Combination!

'The Modern Man' :The title itself got me intrigued. What could now be here about a modern man which hasn't been said so far ? What could be so different in here that the author decided to write a book on it ?

But all my questions were answered in the best possible way thanks to Cristiane Serruya, an author who became a good friend of mine thanks to Goodreads. And the friend from a thousand miles  ( Rio de Janeiro, Brazil) away, sent me a copy of her book.

Woah ! To my surprise she sent two other books written by her too ( guess she just realised what sort of a crazy book lover I am ! )

To receive a personalized note from an author who also happens to be your sweet friend is like the cherry on your cake. And so here was I, nestled up with all three books, her sweet little notes and a smile on my face- ready to devour the contents of the books, one by one!





It was good that time when 'he' had time.
The man was the 'Wise' without knowing who he was.

The above two lines just refused to leave me. ‘The Modern Man' by Cristiane Serruya speaks so much in just 19 pages!

What seems like a breeze at first slowly becomes the silence before the storm and then- lo and behold! It shatters the very stable foundation of the belief that a man possesses- of the power, strength and capability he thinks he has.

In a mind-numbing revelation, Cristiane brings forth the ultimate miseries of 'The Modern Man' or The Modern 'Lost' Man. It's an eye-opener of sorts. It finally makes one believe about the eventual uselessness of trying to conquer the entire world without giving a moment of thought to one's instincts.

"Instincts"- It is something that one often pushes down to one's train of thoughts and feelings. But not anymore please. Make your instincts your guide. Go out, change the world. Just make sure that you remain true to yourself in the process!

Powerful writing, Cristiane! Hats off to you!

P.S. There is a strong reason why it was awarded the highest grade and Honors at the Law School, in November 1988! :) . The reason? Read it to know it!


- Divya Nambiar

Tuesday, July 16, 2013

Bizarre

They called him the protector, the one to look upto
She ran away unable to meet his eyes.
The dimmed streetlights, the blurred world...
That memories never changed, she thanked God !

The path ahead she couldn't see, the road that she left
she hardly could recollect.
Yet splinters of it bled her eyes
Visions that could hypnotize.

Crippled she fell, broken beyond repair.
The moments that she cherished
now led her to despair
unsaid words now lay tarnished.

In the guise of a breeze it stormed.
The silent lament of a tricked soul
A permanent scar, a belief - now deformed
'The second' that lay etched like an ugly mole...


Sunday, July 14, 2013

From Dreams to Reality


Started by my two friends namely Vaishali Sharma and Harkirat Khangura, it is a website that focusses on bringing to the fore the achievements of various entrepreneurs who made their dreams come true. They are up there because of a journey they embarked upon, not afraid of the initial pitfalls that are unavoidable on every new path one plans to travel upon!

And then they being my friends asked me whether I would like to be on-board their team. The idea seemed good and the thought that I too could contribute towards making some hard-workers and their work shine, made me smile. So here I was in the team dedicated to ' Startaholics'- Hooked on Startups!

They made me the COO(Chief Operating Officer), I couldn't stop laughing because every time I heard COO, it sounded more like cuckoo's song to me.. COO COO.

But that's what friends do ! They make you go crazy, they make you smile, they laugh with you, they give you gifts in such a way that you don't even realize it's true value sometimes.. until much later when all you can do is think back about those days, those moments and smile  :)

Well you can have a look at the website- http://startoholics.in/

It is our tribute to all the entrepreneurs out there- the ones who are bold enough to take a decision that can make or break their life! But still there they are.. ready to face life with a never-say-die attitude.

Hats off to you!

If you know any people like that.. do drop us a mail on hi@startoholics.in


We would be obliged to you as you would be contributing towards a small 'Token of Appreciation' to those few ones out there in this world who not only dare to dream but also have the guts to stand up for their dreams.. to make them come true!


-Divya G. Nambiar

Sunday, March 24, 2013

No Title



Everyone's life is a story.. Some are just bestsellers !
Everyone's story has some characters who happen to make or break the entire plot.. And then there are moments that get engraved.. get frozen in the shelf of time.

Celebrating someone's presence in our life is always a joyful thing. And as contrasting as that is the absence of some people whom we always thought would last as long as we do.

They say people come and stay in our lives till their part in our story exists. Once the scene no longer requires them, they walk towards the 'Exit' door (wherever that exists) whether the film goes on or not.Then it's our fault if we yearn for them, if we reminisce, we smile, we shed tears unknowingly. Unfair. Think so ?

But the best part is that we often forget that they were sent into our lives for a reason. Maybe when we were alone, maybe when the going got tough, maybe when we didn't trust ourselves enough, maybe when we needed a little extra something.. someone to make us realize the real value of the life that we are leading, which we tend to let go from our minds thanks to the cobwebs we get into. And they land up like an angel, 'farishtey' as they say in Bollywood movies( yes, I am a die-hard fan of Yash Chopra).

This is dedicated to one such 'Farishta' who came into my life when I thought angels don't exist!

With the sands of time I let myself flow
the good and bad times in tow.
The breeze gently claimed the careless hairlocks
that slid past the witness to the daily mocks
put forth by the feckless banters of the crowd
into the hypnotising being held inside a shroud.

Glistening pearls of the summer's dream
shinier than a widow's eyes filled to brim.
The sole proof of a magical existence,
amidst the screams of helpless distances.
The melody of the soulful discourse,
etched in the daylight of being morose.

In the depths of an opaque ocean,
Found a gem on the verge of denotion.
The dust faded slowly to reveal
the glory of the deep-set love seal
Sparkle it did...with a mysterious glint
Flown again by the sands of time..
...... Stop it didn't !


- Divya Nambiar



Thursday, February 14, 2013

A Thing Called Love on Valentine's Day


Another year passed by, another Valentine's Day came and is almost on it's way, taking leave from us this year.. Again! Just like any other day, like every other day- here passes another day.

Singles trying either to enjoy their singleton status or sulking about whether their better halves got crushed by a truck.

And then there are the lovebirds swooning in a magical trance, in other words flying paper money in buying stuffed red hearts at rates where they could have actually bought a whole month's supper ( as told by my mother) ! Or still there are others who say - "Everyday is Valentine's Day for us. We don't need sweets, hearts or teddies to prove our love to each other."

And then come the people who go on with their lives oblivious to the red roses, pink dresses, balloons, hearts and every other Valentine's special stuff that line the streets and literally paint the town 'red'.

Why exactly is this day hyped so much ? Is it to give the present 'stuffed-pocket youth' a reason to lighten it? Or to let them compensate for the otherwise mundane busy life that they lead where the only conversation that takes place between them and their special someone is a few pleasantries? Or is it to be the icing on the cake made up of 'The Trend'?

To each, his own !

What I appreciate most about this day is the fact that I get to see people- single as well as committed ones, agreeing to the fact that there is actually something called love that exists and which they too acknowledge in the form of being dedicated customers of Archies, Hallmark or sooooo many online gift providers. Even if not exchanging gifts, people take out time from their busy lives to sit back for atleast a few seconds and smile at the beauty of love in their lives, to smell the fragrance of the beautiful roses from the bouquet or just be grateful for the thing called LOVE.. :)

Love ... It's beautiful.. They say that often it's not people you love but 'love' itself.. But to me.. the people, things and ways of life that you love is what 'LOVE' is to you...... :)

Happy Valentine's Day Folks! 

- Divya Nambiar